为什么？

为什么？
为什么？
为什么？
为什么会这样？
你可以告诉我吗？
到底是为什么？
我很想知道原因。
为什么你好像变得遥不可及了？

心里的距离永远比实际距离更遥远。

The Natural Phenomena

It's a natural thing that a plant needs air, water and sun to survive. Without anyone of it, it would wilt as times passes. A little change in the weather will effect the growth of a plant too. When drought or flood happen, the plant will be destroy. In the other hand, when it is an ordinary sunny day, the plant will continue growing. Why do the life of a plant have to be control by all of them? Isn't it the plant who should be the one deciding when to live and when to wilt? But, it will never happen. The plant wouldn't be given a chance to decide it's own life as this is it's destiny.

Special For Timun

To my another friend who left ADP, Timun :

Tell the truth, we weren't that close actually. Do you know why? We don't even have any class in common in our 1st sem. Unlike Kel, at least I still have calculus class with him. So, I don't really know you well. Sorry.

But, thanks to the Kuantan trip. We really became closer compared to last time. Still remember our sunrise trip? HAHA! We kisiao already, woke up early in the morning at 5 just to see the sunrise. It was lucky that we didn't kena curse by Aaron and didn't get to see the sunrise. If not, really very potong mood! I really had fun taking nice nice pictures with you and the others at the beach during that time. We even scolded the clouds for blocking the sun, but it's lucky that we didn't leave on the spot. If not, we would have missed the nice scenery.

Do you know that when we sent you the bus stop, I almost cried. I don't know why, because we weren't that close actually. But maybe because of this trip, we really did bond together. This is the only reason that could have made me sad right? HAHA! And now, you're really leaving ADP. Left already also want to tease me with the BUY thing ya? Want to tease how long? HAHA! It's ok la, by teasing me can make you all happy, so I don't mind being teased. See, I treat you all so good! =) Ask me don't emo, you yourself also don't la. Please remember, don't be so egor. Not good okay? Now you and Shalee have to seperate and go into a different path, but just take it as a challenge. I think if you all can overcome distance, this will make your relationship stronger and more long-lasting. Trust me!

Okay la. I just want to wish you all the best in your future life in ICPU. Oh ya, thanks for the lunch in Wong Kok. Next time it's my turn to buy you lunch okay? Don't fight with me. =)

I will miss you teasing me
"buy la!" and "6.30 guy" <3

Special For Sama Nasib Punya Orang

Sama nasib punya orang:

you yourself know who am I talking about.Haih! The sad post in your blog really made me sad and think quite a lot. I sat there and think, so many things had happen in this few months. From January orientation, which I haven't even know you, until now. I still remembered that I know you through one of the LOL meeting, before that I didn't even notice that you're in my calculus class. Later on, we slowly get closer during the election week. Do you still remember that you and Jun came to my house to take the TV to college? Just because that other parties have TV and we don't? HAHA! We even lost our way when going to my house and paid toll for nothing.

After the LOL party, at first i thought that everyone wouldn't be that close anymore. But surprisingly, we still have our BIG GANG LUNCH every single day!I always remember that during our calculus class, how we eat 'char siew pao' secretly and talked and kena scolded by Mr.Phang(5% 5% stop talking). All those seems like just have happen recently.I can still remember how we copy answers during calculus exam, we just shout out the answers like no one's business. HAHA!

Not just that, we still have our calculus study group before exam!We memang sometimes hardcore, sometimes just sit there and talk. All those times were really fun!Still remember that we were so crazy and stressed up for 1 of our 6% exam? We took it so serious like it's a 20% exam. That's so funny!

Seriously, we actually became closer through the Kuantan trip and especially when we knew that both of us were in the same situation. This had brought us closer, because we have the same thoughts. You're really a great friend!You are able to counselor people when they are in a bad mood, because you seems to have more experience than anyone of us. You are actually very matured in the deep side of your heart. I really enjoy all the emo talk with you. HAIH! Time flies so fast. In a blink of eye, you're already leaving ADP(THANKS TO JPA!)

After reading your blog, I got a brother feeling from you. It's more sad when you call me mui mui, like my another brother leaving again. =( It's like we're more than friends already. We're actually a big family. The LOL family. The ADP family.Don't worry, you will always be a part of our gang! The LOL gang!

Kelvin Benigus,
like to eat sugus!
don't forget this ah!
made by Crystal Teoh. =)

愚蠢的人们

人往往都会都有不理智的时候，
尤其是在爱情里。
明知道会受伤，
还是要往前冲。
就算知道了结果会是什么，
可是还是肯把自己陷入困境里。
就算知道了继续等下去也不会有结果，
但还是不肯放手。
人啊人！
为什么这么傻呢？

我朋友说过，
学会放手才能得到真正的幸福。
再拼命挣扎只会让双方留下疤痕。
尝试放手就是幸福的第一步。
选择一条以后再也没有他的路，
继续走下去。

可是，又有谁可以真正的做到这一点呢？
撤撤底底的忘掉过去，
不再执著于得不到的东西。
可能，未来有更幸福的路在等着我们。
如果我们不试着走出过去，
怎知未来会有什么惊喜呢？

人生不能只停留在过去，
这只会阻碍成长！
走向未来才可以活出一个缤纷色彩的生活。

缘分

在茫茫人海中两个人能相遇是缘分，
第一次的相遇也许是偶然，
第二次如果相遇那就是必然，
如果第三次还能相遇的话，
那么是命中注定了！

缘分永远都由不到我们来控制。
两个人能遇见真的很需要缘分。
不管是成为朋友还是情人，
都需要缘分。
没有缘分的两个人，
就算约好了，
最终也不会见到面。

一切都来自于生命中的缘分，
缘分到了躲也躲不掉。
是你的就是你的，
如果不是你的，
怎么也勉强不来。
就像彩虹所说的一样，
天时地利人和真的很重要。
冥冥中自有安排。
只要有缘份的，
兜兜转转还是会在遇见的。

坦诚

当两个人在一起时，
对对方坦白真的很重要。
这样，
这段恋情才可以继续维持下去。
也不会因时间的关系，
而变得更疏远。

当问题出现时，
很多人都会选择逃避，
不去想他。
他们宁愿把问题放在一边，
也不想去解决他。
问题就这样慢慢的累积下来，
最终的结局会闹得一法不可收拾。
之前所压抑的感觉，
会一次过爆发出来。
到时候，
小事情就会演变成两个人吵架的导火线了。
那又何必呢？
一开始对对方坦诚的说出自己的感觉不是更好吗？

很多时候，
选择不坦白的反而是男生。
他们所谓的自尊心，
让他们觉得该把所有的事情都往里面藏。
每当女方问起时，
他们就会说：
“没事啊！”
“你多心了！”
“不要想这样多！”
可是，
他们的一举一动却很明显的表示他们不开心或生气。
但，他们又不肯说。
真是不明白他们在想什么。
到底是为什么呢？
男生的自尊心真的这样重要吗？

不坦白，逃避，自尊心，
这些往往都会让一段恋情该有的甜蜜给慢慢的冲淡掉。
最终的感觉就会像白开水一样，
淡而无味。